؟ ([personal profile] dramatispersonae) wrote2014-09-06 01:21 pm

Jasper

[When you step through the door, you find yourself in a dark room. The only thing that seems to light the room is a candle that one of you are suddenly holding.

You can hear a voice echoing around you though you don't know who it belongs to.]
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Re: Discussion

[personal profile] oedipuswreck 2014-09-07 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
Oh . . . ah—

[looking around for whoever is playing with Jasper, lifting the candle higher]
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Re: Discussion

[personal profile] penalizing 2014-09-07 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
...Oh, hey, you're a new face!
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[personal profile] oedipuswreck 2014-09-07 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
[blinks at her owlishly]

I think I should be the one saying that to you . . .

I'm Shinji. It's nice to meet you.

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Re: Answer

[personal profile] oedipuswreck 2014-09-07 02:01 am (UTC)(link)
We think that it's not likely, or really alright, for people to go into relationships with the actual intent to change others. But we think that people can change as a result of having those relationships, and something like that is alright. It's important.

First, just by letting someone know that you care about them, it can impact their life . . . a lot. People aren't meant . . . to be alone. And being lonely can bring out the worst in someone.

Second, by being able to empathize—to have a shared experience and understand where someone is coming from. Help them feel like . . . they're not the only person that's gone through that. That perspective can really change the way someone approaches things.

And then thirdly, if you stand by a person and are willing to forgive them—to continue being their friend, even if you get hurt, or bad decisions are made. It's important to let someone know if you disapprove—not all choices someone makes are okay and should be supported, but if you make it clear that it doesn't change that you care about them, that's going to make them less afraid.

All of these things . . . they're really invaluable, especially to someone that . . . maybe wants to change, but doesn't know how. And is scared of doing it alone.
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[ ...what did i just walk into... ]

--What?

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[personal profile] penalizing 2014-09-07 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
I would say welcome, but, umm...

[ ...Well, maybe not the best place to welcome someone to. ]

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Re: Discussion

[personal profile] oedipuswreck 2014-09-07 02:14 am (UTC)(link)
. . . ah . . .
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Re: Answer

[personal profile] penalizing 2014-09-07 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
Tapping both "Empathize" and "Stand by a person and forgive them" on the mystery figure!
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[personal profile] oedipuswreck 2014-09-07 04:39 am (UTC)(link)
[sucks in a sharp breath, eyes widening]
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[personal profile] penalizing 2014-09-07 04:46 am (UTC)(link)
...I guess we should've affected them, too.

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[personal profile] oedipuswreck 2014-09-07 05:47 am (UTC)(link)
. . .

I think it's not up to—us. If you want to change. If any person is going to change . . . It's definitely up to that person. I think there will be people to support you. Even so—if a person changes . . . that doesn't mean the world is going to be kind. Or that other people will be accommodating. It will be hard.

Still—I guess that makes it all the more important to stay firm in your resolve and have the support of others.
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Re: Bonus

[personal profile] oedipuswreck 2014-09-07 05:48 am (UTC)(link)
. . . I'll pass. It's not something we'll retract.